Let’s talk about the differences between women and men!

Yep, there is a difference. Unfortunately, most of the time we are not willing to understand how these biological differences create communication problems. 

One example. The man is watching sports on television and the woman is trying to get his attention. Because it’s a feminine desire to have your man being attentive to you… yes! The problem is she doesn’t seem to understand that this is the WRONG time for making it happen. 

But at least she makes the best of the situation and tries. She takes on the new sexy underwear she just bought. That must awake his attention? Unfortunately, it’s just in her dreams since she hasn’t understood how the male brain works. 

Her man is right now in the box compartment of the brain where he is watching sports. She dancing in and disturbing his engagement by blocking the television is just too much… He tells her to get out of the way. 

Of course, it’s a disappointment to her. He didn’t see her. He didn’t notice that she had made an effort. He didn’t give her the attention that she wanted. Instead she of course felt rejected. 

How many times doesn’t this scenario happen in relationships? I don’t say that it has to happen in the same way, but you get the idea…. She wants to be seen and felt… she tries to reach out but the reaction feels like rejection. 

This is not what she wanted. She wanted to feel a connection. 

The reason why this happens is that we mostly don’t understand that your male partner is not like the girlfriends you have… and you don’t want him to be like one of your girlfriends either, right? 

You want to feel his male presence and energy. But for him to be able to do so, you have to create the compartment box for that attention to happen. 

For those of us who do Orgasmic Meditation with our partner, this becomes a compartment box for a man to understand that it’s time to get some attention. It moreover has a strict rule to it by defining a specific frame of time. After you express what you felt during the 15 minutes by communicating your sensations. It cultivates both partners to how it feels to have a concentrated focus on connecting and feeling each other.

In what way have you found out a practice that you do with your partner that ignites connection?

Intimacy and connection are not something that just happens. It has to be planned for, like other routines that you have in your life… and it requires your willingness and desire to become more conscious. To learn what you yet don’t know. This is why I created the online workshop where you can learn the 8 secrets to relationships success

Below, enjoy Mark Gungor who in a humorous way illustrates the differences between women and men..

Picture thank you illustrating a woman and men operating from masculine energy: http://psychology.iresearchnet.com/social-psychology/personality/masculinity-and-femininity/