Why is it so hard to let love in?

Let’s be honest. We all have been hurt in love, right? Maybe it happened already in your childhood…. Feeling unloved by a non-accessible mother or father… Maybe feeling betrayed or hurt by the first loving relationship you had? Or maybe you like me… have experienced the loss of a loved one that left this earth way too young….  

We all more or less have these experiences of what it means to have felt hurt in love.

This is why we unconsciously without even knowing about it – continue to keep love out of our lives. We build our independence and our self-worth as a single individual that lives a life of freedom. Everything is accessible…. We can do and be whoever we want… Everything is possible to create and achieve for you…

But what is it all worth if you are doing all these things alone?

I know how this is since I used to be exactly that woman. Self-sufficient in my independence. Valuing my freedom of not feeling attached – to anyone. Working hard on my business. Keeping myself busy…

That is how I lived most of my life. Very goal-driven and efficient. But the question is – was that really happiness? 

After having the experience of going deep in healing my own unconscious wounds so I could let love in – I’m an living integrated knowledge of what’s going wrong in our culture. 

That’s why I created the Relationship Intelligence Model of Conscious Love. That also you can open up to love… not only how to let love in but also how to keep love in your life… that’s an Art to master.

You see most people learn about what it means of being in a relationship from parents and friends, and if they are not great leading examples – you may not have any role models. 

To open up to a loving relationship that nourishes you and where there is a common growth, you first have to acknowledge your own wounds from previous relationships…. not only acknowledge them but also be able to feel them.

Since most people prefer to live in their heads instead of being in their body, it’s very easy that we push ourselves out of relationships that we think is not for us… we rationalize and keep looking at all the dirt on the strawberry instead of treasuring what’s really good…. . 

If anything I say speaks to you. Let’s connect. Life is too short for continue choosing isolation under the argument that you work too hard and therefore don’t have time for a relation.